A woman feels safe and the man feels like he is powerful and dominant. It doesn't stop at a hug either. Tall men love the notion that they could if they wanted to, lift a little lady up and canoodle with her.
This too seems to be an aspect of protectionism, appealing to a man's deepest level of primal instinct.
It is true that attractive women are tall women as well as short, and I don't mean to show height discrimination, however, sometimes you just can't fight nature. The key to a secure relationship is both parties feeling secure, cared for, and needed. After all, being needed is something everyone wants in life. Is this why this combination works so well? When a tall guy chooses an average height or a smaller woman, he is guaranteed to be needed on an ongoing basis.
Whether it be to simply reach the top shelves in the supermarket, changing those light bulbs, or coming to her rescue if threatened, there is definitely a need to fulfill. She will feel like she will have protection when it comes time to start a family. This statement is quite obvious, yes sex is fun. However, tall guys are perceived as being stronger than shorter guys.
This gives them the ability to be more inventive and experimental when their partner is on the petite side. Relationship experts state that romantic relationships thrive when the sex is fun and relaxed. As long as all parties are comfortable, why not have a bit of fun in the bedroom But for guys who happen to be dating shorter women, these things are a pretty great bonus. It makes guys look taller. Even a man of average height will look much taller next to a short girl.
Well, that or actually be tall. Forget about wrapping you up in our arms, we can wrap you up in one arm and still have one free to eat chicken nuggets or something. Everyone wins here. We can pick you up and carry you to bed. Did you fall asleep in our arm while we were watching Netflix together? No problem.
We can just pick you up and carry you to bed without worrying about smashing your head on a doorway or something. It makes us feel helpful. This might be the only thing we bring to the table as far as this relationship is concerned. When a group of women walk into a bar, most eyes turn immediately to the tallest one in the group — simply because she might be the first face they see. And when men interact with tall women, as Roger Dobson explains for The Independent, the outcome is generally positive.
These initial impressions don't guarantee a lasting relationship. But they do give tall women a leg up no pun intended. Although these judgements may seem superficial, I understand where they come from.
Whenever I think of a tall woman, I almost always picture Uma Thurman or Maria Sharapova — tall, blonde, alpha females. Both happen to be very assertive. Psychologists from the Universities of Liverpool and Central Lancashire set out to gain a better understanding of height discrimination, a tendency that has influenced male-male competition since the beginning of human history.
But heightism is not confined to ego battles between men. It also plays a large role in a man's choice of mate. In one study, men were asked to judge the characters of women whose pictures had been digitally shortened or lengthened. Simon Chu, who was involved in the study, explained. The evidence found in studies of heightism is not entirely in favor of tall women. In fact, it often suggests that men may view shorter women in an equally positive light.
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